Friday, May 31, 2013

1ST COMPETITION 2013

Kathleen preparing for her first Competitive Trail Ride!
Get ready, get set....time to get going!

The ride was called S.A.D.  I can't remember why that was the acronym.  It was held in Sackville, NB at a municipal part on the long weekend in May. As we were preparing the horse trailer on Thursday night, the weather forecast for the weekend wasn't actually that bad. (Weather discussion to be continued throughout this post...groan).

The plan was that on Saturday I would ride Spirit and mentor Kathleen (riding Ali) through her first 25 mile Competitive Trail Ride.  This feisty 15 year old had been training her handsome new Arab (Ali) for this moment for about a solid 7 months.  Then on Sunday, Kathleen's mom - Shelley would ride her first Competitive Trail Ride on Spirit, while I coached and encouraged along the way.  Todd (Shelley's husband and Kathleen's dad) was driving the horse trailer.  Todd also offered to stay with the horses so that the us girls could get a motel room for the nights.  We did expect it to be a bit chilly at night - being May and all.  Troy was going to come to Sackville on Saturday to help out over the weekend.

Well, Friday dawned grey and chilly.  I saw Todd down tinkering around the horse trailer way before departure time and went down to investigate.  Turns out that Shelley's beloved grandfather (Pup) had passed away Thursday night.  A lovely man and big influence on Shelley.  He lived just up the road from Todd, Shelley and Kathleen and was a big part of their day-to-day life.

I thought we would be pulling out of the ride, but the decision was made that  Shelley would stay home,  but Todd and Kathleen would continue on to the ride.  It was a sober start to what is usually a fun-packed weekend with Todd and Kathleen wearing the loss of their Pup heavily on their minds and me trying not to worry about my son's looming CT scan booked for the following Tuesday.  Anyway, off we went determined to make the best of it despite our circumstances and the dull, grey sky.

When we got there, it was bitter cold and so windy you had to holler to be heard.  The site was a beautiful picnic park - but very open and that wind was strong and raw.  It was nice to see old faces and as we set up,  our mood steadily lifted and excitment started to seep in!

 When we started setting up, we realized we forgot a few things - and I won't add any more details than that - think we deserve a break given the situation.  Troy and Tammy surprised ups by showing up at the ride site Friday afternoon instead of Saturday.  This was great fun!.....but unfortunately Troy now knows the stuff we forgot, so we will be hearing about it for a while!
Lynn, Kathleen and Tammy (freezing our Axxes off)
It was so cold that I had on a pair of snow pants,  and three different winter jackets - one with a hood that was drawn up tight most of the time and no gloves so my hands were tucked into my jackets.  It was hard to move around or socialize all bundled up like that.   At one point, I went to use the Johnny on the spot - when my butt hit that cold metal-like seat - a four letter word I seldom used came screaming out of my body along with "what am I doing here"  Once out of the Johnny, I immediately felt guilty and was glad no one had heard me.  It was obvious that ride management had worked hard to put this ride together.  I know how much work is involved in that and I vowed right there and then not to let this miserable weather bring down our spirits.  Ride management has no control over the weather and I didn't want to hurt their feelings by being miserable about the cold.  I was really good with my new found commitment too - until a few hours later when I sat on that Johnny on the Spot again!  Same words - same phrase!! (I really have to got learn how to "hover")

Saturday morning dawned freezing cold and very, very windy.  Poor Spirit, we had shaved him the week before. Even with a blanket, he must have been cold.  Our vet checks went well and we were gearing up to head out to the first hold (16 miles).  With the combination of cold and excitement, our horses legs were literally trembling as we climbed aboard.

In a CTR you go out every two minutes in groups of 2 or 3.  We were sent out with Jim and we immediately put our horses up into a trot.  I asked Jim (who was leading) to speed it up a bit because Spirit needs a good fast trot to start, otherwise I will have trouble.  In retrospect maybe I should have asked to take over the lead.  About 1/2 a mile into the ride (hopefully NOT because we sped up), Jim's horse pulled some kind of really fancy maneuver and the next thing we knew, Jim was on the ground and the horse was running away.  Good grief not 10 minutes into Kathleen's first CTR (hopefully we would complete and it would be her first), and we were having difficulties.  Our horses were half rearing in all the excitement and at first we weren't sure what to do as we watched Jim disappear into the woods calling after his horse and waving his hands around frantically. 

We decided to ride back to camp and let someone know what happened.  After we rode about 1/4 mile back,  we could see Jim's horse galloping across the field and heading for the horse trailers, so we decided there was no need to go back to camp - the news was self-evident and we changed direction again and headed out into the ride.

A few minutes later, I started looking for a 3 mile loop where the CTR riders had to veer off from the IDR riders.  I started to worry that we had missed the loop.  This would have been disastrous early on in the ride and for about the next 15 minutes, I had that sickening feeling you get when you think you are off trail.  Turns out I just didn't read the map close enough...the loop eventually showed up, just a little later than I was expecting. 

We headed into the loop - and Jim caught up with us!  Great job Jim.  The loop was really nice.  It was only 3 or 4 miles but the horses settled into a nice slow canter, got rid of their jitters and settled into the job.

All was going well, albeit it cold, when we came across a part of the ride that included going in and out of a river bed.  I took one look of what was ahead...muddy river bank, into the river, more mossy grassy stuff, more muddy bank, another little river ..., and said "Kathleen get off, we are walking our horses through this."  I did not think it was safe to take her through this - her first ride and her horses' first competition.  Just as I said it, we heard two people on the other side of the river.  "Get off " they said.  One said, "You better get off and walk through that, I just lost my teeth."  Well, I thought,  that's an odd thing to say.

We struggled through the muddy parts with a bit of a mess but the three of us fared out ok.  When we got to the other side, sure enough there was a rider there holding her face with three of her front teeth pushed way, way back in her mouth.  Poor Nicole.  My heart went out to her.  She had telephoned for help and she had a friend with her, so there was no sense in us staying with her and she did her best, even in her predicament, to encourage us to ride on.  I thought I had lost Kathleen at that point.  It was a lot for a 15 year old girl to take in (are you kidding, it was a lot for a 54 year old woman to take in), but she got back on her horse.  After we left, I upped the speed quite a bit - forcing Kathleen to take her mind off of what had happened and focus what was happening.   The strategy worked.  In no time, we were back to the task at hand.

At around mile 9 (totally guessing here), we ran into Deanna and her horse Azzy (hope I spelled that right).   Well, Spirit went into competition mode - he doesn't like other horses in front of him. I think he has a select list of horses that he really doesn't like in front of him, and Deanna's horse is on that list!  We were on a beautiful country road, great footing and we cantered a long, long distance on that road.  Kathleen said that was the most she's ever cantered.

We were aiming for about a 7 mile average going into the hold.  In a CTR, you need to finish with a 6 mile and hour average - with a 15 minute window on either side.  I like to try to get to the hold at 7 miles per hour as you never know when you might get lost and you can always walk the last couple of miles  to let the clock tick down.  It seemed really hard to get that average on this ride, but all of a sudden I think we were actually up to 7.5 mph.  With about 1/2 a mile to go to the hold, we brought our horses down and walked in.  We wanted to make sure they met heart rate criteria at the hold.

At the hold, once we were no longer riding, Kathleen and I got really, really cold.  Our horses pulsed in fine.  I was told that Spirit pulsed in at 42 - the lowest horse at the hold up til that time, and earlier that day the vet told me that his starting heart rate was 36 - also the lowest he'd seen up til that point! Criteria requires the heart rate be less than 60.  Ali's was in the 50s but to be expected - so many new things for the boy to experience this weekend right from the moment he got on the horse trailer at home.
Arriving at the Hold 
The second part of the ride (miles 17 to 25) were even colder and there was quite a bit of mud.  We walked a lot of the mud because we had the time, but that meant that the riders got even colder.  All of a sudden it started to hail.  Big hail. It was bouncing off the horses everywhere - especially off their butts!  The wind was so strong and the hail was stinging the right side of our faces.  I should have just sped up and taken an "early" penalty.   The hail lasted quite a long time - unbelievable.  Well, don't ever say it can't get worse because just as I was thinking that....it started to SNOW.  SNOW.  So let me recap, we are cold, cold, it is windy, windy, we are slightly wet from HAIL and now it is SNOWING.

The survival instinct kicked in and I decided it was time to teach Kathleen how to do a good solid trot through lots of mud!
Snow at the hold....helmet cam steamed up in the extreme temperature change, so we didn't get much footage from the riders' perspective.
A little tid bit about riding in the mud -  Ride Management has told us about a couple of really muddy spots after the hold that might be a bit precarious but I couldn't remember where they were.  So whenever we hit some really big nasty looking puddles, I decided to let my horse decide where to go.  Guess what he did - he got up on the side of the road in that little bit of space between trees and puddle and that's where he walked!  He never took a mis-step down into the puddles and not once did he get too close to the trees to put me into any kind of trouble.  A well travelled trail horse is worth his weight in gold.  Love my Boo.

Kathleen never complained once.  She stated rather matter of fact at one point that the right side of her face was cold and sore - and she was correct - that's what happens when you ride miles in strong wind and hail!

For the last couple of miles, we knew we were ahead of schedule so we came down and stayed at a walk.  We met up with 4 or 5 other riders and we all walked in together.  Sounds nice doesn't it - Not really.  Once Spirit knows he is close to the ride site he does not understand why he can't canter home, so my job was to hold him in his place (pop, pop he went, as the pain in my shoulders screamed in protest at the combination cold weather and holding back 1000 pounds f horse)  and to walk at a "normal" horse speed and not his 5 mile an hour monster walk!
Walking in at the end of the ride.  

Our optimum ride time had us returning to camp at 2:29 pm.  We arrived at 2:29 or 2:30pm - I can't remember.  We went through all our requirements - heart rate, trot out, and "hands on".  All was well and Kathleen and her wonderful little steed Ali, completed their first Competitive Trail Ride!  Congratulations Kathleen - your hard work paid off!
A special thank you to Ride Management.  Trails were well marked.  Ride site was beautiful.  There was a rough spot on the trail that caused some trials and tribulations - but these things are hard to gauge when setting up a new ride site.  You all did a great job and we appreciate all your hard work.
Kathleen's great grandfather, Pup, would have been proud of her.  She stayed positive in tough weather, thought of her horse first, showed a genuine caring and interest in others, and represented the Tidal Treasures' Team honourably.







Khol's First Trot!




Last night, May 30, 2013 Khol experienced his first trot with a human on board!  His turning is still really stiff and he isn't quite sure what all the signals mean for going forward etc., but all-in-all it was a successful introduction.  A little video of it here if you are interested:      Khol's first trot!

Last night was also the first time Pam rode Tiki in the outdoor arena and from the arena back to the barn.  It's that time of year again...each nice weather day now will be a "first for this" and a "first for that."!!

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Paris' Perspective - New Experiences




Penny asks "Can I play too?"


You can see from the picture that I have forgiven Lynn for Sunday.  (See my post below.)

We've been riding the past two days and I have been enjoying myself most of the time.   I like taking Lynn for rides up Lelands, mostly because there is lots of grass and many other types of trees and things to eat that are not in my paddock! Yum.  Now, I have my conditions - one is that I stay behind another horse.  I DO NOT WANT TO LEAD.  Bit by bit, Lynn is trying to convince me otherwise.  I can tell what she's doing, but she is sliding into it so slowly that she keeps managing to convince me to do things I don't really want to.  Tonight, for example, she convinced me that I didn't have to lead but there was really no reason why I couldn't walk up beside Spirit....so I did for a while.  It was scary, but it wasn't that bad.

Then, just as we were walking home, we turned right on the highway, instead of crossing the road and heading straight home.   Lynn dismounted and walked me in hand up the highway. Well, let me tell you I had so many different experiences after that right turn that I couldn't possibly tell you about them all!  I found out that I do not like cars coming up from behind me.  I found out that I do like it in the woods. Or at least I think I do there was so much going on ...all the changes in the ground ...up and down, mud and roots (what is with those roots?), trees all along my side and above me.  It was very exciting!   I found out that I am more worried about things the farther I get from home; and less worried about them as I get close to home.  I found out that I can canter at 7 miles per hour!  I found out a lot of things today!



Sunday, May 26, 2013

Paris' Perspective on a Windy Day in May


























 Khol, Penney and I are alone in one of the big paddocks these days.  Today it was extremely windy and very ominous outside.  "Something" was in the air and we were scared for our lives.  We are just too  young to be left alone in these conditions - Seriously, our combined age is only 9.  There was some freakin scary smells in that wind - we were really craving a dose of adult supervision.  Gotta talk to management about this.  We were bucking and rearing and cantering and very jittery.  THEN, Max and Ducky go galloping by.  Ducky was flying... I timed them myself at around 24 mph - up the hill in a headwind.  Well, that's all I needed to see, I was darn near jumping out of my skin/hair/fur.

Just about that time, I looked up and Lynn was walking down the driveway towards me with my halter.  Thank goodness.  I can always count on Lynn to save me.  I went right to the gate; couldn't wait for her to gather me up and take me into the safety of the barn.

I tried my best to be "calm" as she walked me up the hill towards safety.  I was soo thankful but still pretty jittery.  We went into the barn and it was so lovely and quiet (relatively).  Lynn put me in cross ties. and that's when I saw it...  my SADDLE?  Is she nuts?????!!!!!!

After saddling me, she led me down to the outdoor. It was monsoon winds down there.  Lynn decided we needed to go to the corner overlooking the freakin ocean - the big windy ocean - and the water had big monsters in it lurching back and forth towards me, and the trees - were trying to run away they were so scared, but their roots wouldn't let them.  It was Nightmare on Farm Street. I did not want to go to that corner and I let her know it.  She planted me right in the corner and waited for me to eat some grass that had grown up in the corner.  Now, I am known for my stomach but a girl cannot be thinking of food at a time like this.  I was on full alert.  There are giraffes in Africa with heads lower than mine was....safety first I always say.

At about this time, as I am teetering on the verge of a nervous breakdown, ..this LOUD, scary grass eating machine comes into my sight....and I can't quite figure out exactly what it is I'm looking at but I'm pretty sure the machine was EATING Gary...right before my eyes.  I was so scared, I didn't even dare blink.  I was #$#@# transfixed by the sight before my eyes.  A few minutes of this went by and THEN....HOLY SHIT ###@, *&^((##& .PAM AND TIKI  CREPT UP BEHIND ME.  I LOST it.  I went running.  Yes, Lynn was still attached.  No, I did not mean to drag her across the sand and almost tear her arm out, but I lost it.  We had to get outta Dodge NOW.

Once we were out of the scary corner, I let Lynn take over again.  Sort of.  She led me towards the centre of the arena and was about to get up on the mounting block.  Is this woman out of her mind?  Then,....she changed her mind.   Sweet Lawd, the woman was coming to her senses.  She walked me over to the gate, through the gate, and we headed back towards the barn.  Oh I thanked my lucky stars that this ordeal was over.  When I saw the barn getting closer, I sighed a big sigh of relief.  When we walked into the barn, I darn near kissed the floor with my muzzle.

Lynn walked me down the sweet, quiet aisle way.  Then she turned me around.  Then, (oh I still cringe when I think of what happened next)...she grabbed her BIG STICK (maybe it's not really that big but it looks big to me), and she walked me right back out of that barn, back down the drive way, (while I outright OBJECTED) into the outdoor arena, and then she got on my back. She gave me a squeeze (kick) and pointed me right to the scary ocean corner.  Seriously?  I think not - I said.  Ouch, I said....she hit me with that darn stick...OK I said one step. Ouch I said. OK I said two steps and that's it.  Ouch, Ouch I said. OK OK.  BUT I DON"T LIKE THIS.

We spend 1/2 an hour going one or two steps (with STICK encouragement), stopping, stopping , waiting, waiting, then another step or two.....repeat process til my nerves were fried.  We finally got around that darn corner.  We went around the arena, and didn't she point me right towards that corner again.  Well, I think my fried brain just went limp, because I barely even gave an opinion.  By the 4th or 5th loop I decided that the corner wasn't so bad after all.  BUT NOW THOSE WHITE CHAIRS BY THE GATE WERE ALIVE AND GOING TO EAT ME!!!!

This went on for about an hour and a half....we went 1.25 miles..in an hour and a half and I was exhausted.  Pam finally opened the gate.   Lynn was still on my back.  I wanted to go to the barn sooooo sooooo bad, but those darn chairs were between me and the barn.  Lynn just pointed me towards the barn and let me ponder the situation.  (She can really be mean sometimes).  I sucked up every ounce of courage I have ever had in all my five years on this earth.  I noticed that while the chairs were alive, they did not seem to be in an "eating" mood, and so I very c.a.r.e.f.u.l.l.y walked through the chairs.  I held my breath the entire time.  My feet barely touched the ground but I DID IT!!!! WOW!!!  I WALKED THROUGH THE WIND..PAST THE CHAIRS, AND THEN PAST ONE HORSE TRAILER AND THEN THE OTHER ...RIGHT TO THE BARN.  I AM SO PROUD OF MYSELF!!!!!!

Lynn got off and walked me into the indoor riding arena - it was a little noisy in there - nothing like outside though.  Wind was in there being ridden by Troy.  That big ol gelding looked scared...of what?!  He had noooo idea of the hell I had just been through, out there in the REAL world.  Honestly, geldings....don't even get me started.


TRAINING PAM

As you know, I have been training up my little boy – Tiki, and everyone is quite interested in how our progress is, so, I get a lot of “and how is Tiki’s training going?” to which I answer proudly, “very well thank you.”  I am so very glad that no one has asked how my training is going, because it is a little rough around the edges – well, OK... quite rough.

Although, there really isn’t any reason to speak of ... I am merely a 54 year old woman who has a 4 year old ARAB!  I mean – heck – I have been riding for practically 10 years now, and he is my second horse, not my first... I mean – this should be a walk in the park – right!?!?     (Major sarcasm here folks!)
WHAT WAS I THINKING!

The ground looks a lot harder now, and I know these old bones don’t bounce the way young one’s do ... so fear has managed to creep in.

I really don’t understand it. I was fearless as a child. I was a certified SCUBA diver by the time I was 16, tried skydiving when I was in college, owned 3 motorcycles before I ever owned a car, have tried wind surfing, kite boarding and I just learned to surf this year. This feeling of fear is new to me and I don’t like it one little bit! And, I am NOT dealing with it very well either! - which of course gets me frustrated and angry – two other emotions that really help when you are on the back of a young Arab!! - NOT!

But, it is there sometimes, and it crept in yesterday when I was riding Tiki in the indoor arena, with a few friends watching our progress. He wasn’t being stupid or bad – he just kept popping into a trot from the walk without being asked.  I wasn’t even close to being unseated, and I wasn’t afraid of falling off – so where did this fear come from? I don’t know, but it crawled up my back like a cold shiver – and the more I tried to relax and sit deep in the saddle – the more I tensed up. So I got off to walk it out and calm my jangled nerves. I so hate this!
That is when Max got on Tiki. Just to try him out – not to reprimand him or correct him, just to see where he was at. Tiki has known a rider before – but what I found out, was that Tiki is at grade 5 or 6, not 2. Max and Tiki walked, trotted and cantered around that indoor like there was no tomorrow. Max rode with ease and kindness – and Tiki rode calmly and willingly. What an absolutely beautiful sight. It was truly inspiring – and I could see myself up there, riding Tiki – seeing the wide open trail on the back of my horse. I SO want to do a 50 – many 50s even. I love to ride. I love to ride more than I fear – what ever it is I fear ... so when Max got off, I got on, and I walked and I trotted around that indoor - and the fear left as quickly as it had come.

Thank you Max, for showing me how to ride my horse, and thank you Lynn, Troy and Tammy – who pushed and supported me through this hurtle. Without you, I would not have made it through. Will I have more hurdles to overcome – you bet I will – but with the encouragement and support you give me – how can I possible fail. THANK YOU – from the bottom of my heart - for keeping me on the road to my dream.   Pam

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Beautiful Moments


Took these three pictures (one above and two below) within a total of 2 or 3 minutes....talk about ever changing moments.  Sometimes nature reflects back to human existence - emoting three different emotions in less than five minutes.  I think we can all relate to that at certain times in our lives.  

We are humble and grateful in this beautiful moment - as our son's CT scan came back after three months of very aggressive chemotherapy and the cancer that has taken over his stomach has not spread anywhere else.  With this news,  the doctors will go forward and perform surgery to remove his stomach, and hopefully provide him with a new lease on life.  Such a beautiful, humbling moment it is, and I intend to savour every morsel of it.


The news has totally rejuvenated me and so I hope you come back and visit the blog soon because I intend to write  little story about our first competition this season and you may enjoy it.


Peace and love to everyone today, and the wish that you are able to cherish all your beautiful moments.




Sunday, May 19, 2013

HOME - Across the Water

Would it be ridiculous to own a farm on one side of the River and a cottage on the other side?  Let me rephrase that....Would it be ridiculous for MY BANK to own a farm on one side of the River and a cottage on the other side? 

Gary and I went for a drive today, just to get away.  Next thing we knew, we were on the other side of the River taking pictures of the farm:


See that little yellow horizontal stripe in the picture...that's the indoor riding arena.  The building closer to the shore is Buddy's camp, just beside our place.  Best I could do with the camera I had.

Now, one thing led to another and of course, we went for a walk on the beach...

Take a look at that beach.  Can you guess what I started thinking about?  Of course!  What a great place for a horse!  Well, from then on, we started to put a loop together, and what a pretty loop it would be to ride.  We could start on the beach and the dikes...




And then, at the end of the dikes, there is a beautiful road connecting and "looping" the ride.  (We all know how much I detest going back the way I came!)
So, here is the only question left to answer -- do we throw the horses in the trailer the next nice day we can....or do we all pile in cars and drive over to "plan" the ride.  We had a lot of fun "planning" today - not the same type of fun as riding but it was fun!

Oh, and back to my original thought......shouldn't even be a question until I've ridden over here at least 20 times because in the end we all know....it's all about the riding!


Thursday, May 16, 2013

First Competition of the Season






Saddle cleaned, bridle cleaned, girth in washing machine (don't tell husband).  Horse's had trimmed - sort of. Horse cleaned - sort of.   Farrier here and gone. Trailer about half ready - sort of (only a few hours to go!).  Personal gear and stuff - forget it - haven't had a minute to even think about it!  Holy Crap.  It's a good thing I don't remember from year-to-year how much work it is to get ready for the first competition!  This is n-u-t-s!

Our Ride is in Sackville, New Brunswick.  If all goes well, it will be Kathleen's first CTR and Shelley's first CTR.  Regardless (once the work is done),  I'm sure we'll all have fun.  Maybe even a little video to share afterwards!

Sunday, May 12, 2013

My CTR Practice


Had a great training ride everyone did great. And I was very proud of my Mister. I was not surprised 
that he did good but I think some other people were, hahaha :) great job everyone!
I learned to eat and drink more. I could have at the halfway and when I was riding. I was starving after.
I learned that I trot for awhile and come down to walk to let Mister rest. Sometimes we cantered and trotted after. I learned how to put Mister's heart rate monitor on and to look at the watch.

Halfway

Saturday, May 4, 2013

Aziim's Fun with Marie and her Dad



Cantering up Bud's road, whooohooooo!!

You better run!

C'mon! Pick up your feet!


Sponsors for the Autumn Run 2012

Tidal Treasures Stables, along with Lucy and Elwood, are grateful for the generous sponsorship from the following and we encourage ACTRA riders and family to support them:

Say it with Stitches www.sayitwithstitches.ca

The Distance Depot www.thedistancedepot.com

Taylored Tack www.tayloredtack.com

Barn Braids http://custombarnbraids.webs.com/

Fredie's Fantastic Fish House http://www.frediesfantasticfish.com/

Fiske’s Animal Care Products www.fiskes.ca

Falmouth Farm Market donated a 50lb bag of carrots

Bits and Bridles Tack shop donated a 40lb bag of HF/HFiber

Pam Thornton made a financial contribution

Sherry Brooks donated Distance Depot items